So, you’ve found your person—the one who makes your heart race and your coffee order by heart. Now, it’s time to make it official! If you’re a same-sex couple planning to get married in New Zealand, you’re in for a treat.
New Zealand isn’t just famous for its stunning landscapes and Lord of the Rings backdrops—it’s also one of the most LGBTQ+ inclusive countries in the world. Since legalizing same-sex marriage in 2013, it has become a top destination for couples looking for a wedding filled with love, adventure, and, let’s be honest, breathtaking wedding photos.
In this guide, we’ll cover:
✅ Your legal rights as a same-sex couple in NZ
✅ How to get married step-by-step
✅ The best wedding locations (from mountains to beaches)
✅ LGBTQ+ friendly vendors who truly get it
✅ Pro tips to make your wedding stress-free
Ready? Let’s dive into the world of I do’s—New Zealand style!
🏳️🌈 Is Same-Sex Marriage Legal in New Zealand?
Absolutely! New Zealand legalized same-sex marriage on August 19, 2013, under the Marriage (Definition of Marriage) Amendment Act. This law ensures that every couple, regardless of gender, has equal rights to marry and be recognized as a legal spouse.
But what does this actually mean for you?
✅ Equal legal rights – You and your spouse will have the same legal benefits as heterosexual couples.
✅ Full marriage recognition – Your marriage is legally valid and protected under New Zealand law.
✅ No residency requirement – Even if you’re from overseas, you can get married here!
📜 How to Get Married in New Zealand as a Same-Sex Couple
Planning a wedding in NZ is refreshingly simple—no unnecessary paperwork or red tape. Here’s your step-by-step guide:
✅ 1. Apply for a Marriage License
- Fill out the application online at Births, Deaths & Marriages
- Submit it at least 3 working days before your ceremony
- Cost: Around $150 NZD
✅ 2. Choose a Marriage Celebrant
You’ll need a licensed celebrant to officiate your ceremony. Find one here: Celebrants NZ
✅ 3. Pick Your Dream Wedding Location
In New Zealand, you can legally marry anywhere—on a mountain, by a lake, or even on a boat! More on that below.
✅ 4. Bring Two Witnesses
Your witnesses can be anyone over 18—your best friends, family, or even two friendly strangers from your hotel.
✅ 5. Say “I Do” & Sign the Papers
Once your vows are exchanged and your marriage license is signed, boom—you’re married! 🎉
💍 Best Wedding Locations in New Zealand for LGBTQ+ Couples
New Zealand is a dream wedding destination for couples who want a mix of adventure and romance. Whether you’re into mountains, beaches, or vineyards, there’s a spot for you.
1. Queenstown – The Ultimate Adventure Wedding
Think snow-capped mountains, turquoise lakes, and helicopter elopements—yep, that’s Queenstown! This town is wedding heaven for couples looking for jaw-dropping scenery.
📍 Top Venue: The Remarkables Heli-Weddings
2. Wanaka – Peaceful, Private & Stunning
Less crowded than Queenstown but just as spectacular. Imagine saying your vows with the famous Wanaka Tree in the background. 🌿
📍 Top Venue: Rippon Winery
3. Auckland & Waiheke Island – City Chic Meets Wine Country
If you love a mix of urban luxury + beachy vibes, Auckland is your spot. And just a 30-minute ferry ride away, Waiheke Island has world-class vineyards that make for stunning wedding backdrops. 🍷
📍 Top Venue: Mudbrick Vineyard
4. Hobbiton – Yes, You Can Get Married in Middle-earth!
For the Lord of the Rings fans out there—this one’s for you! Exchange vows in the Shire, surrounded by rolling green hills and fairy-tale magic. 🧙♂️
📍 Top Venue: Hobbiton Movie Set
⚖️ Your Legal Rights as a Married LGBTQ+ Couple in NZ
💰 Property Rights – Any assets you and your spouse own together are legally protected.
👶 Parental Rights – You both have equal rights to adopt and raise children.
🏥 Medical Rights – You can make medical decisions for your spouse if needed.
✈️ Travel & Visa Benefits – If one of you is a foreign citizen, marriage can help with visa applications.
New Zealand truly values and protects same-sex couples, making it one of the best places in the world to get married!
🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ Friendly Wedding Vendors Who Get It
Let’s be real—your wedding should be a safe, joyful, and 100% supportive experience. Here are some LGBTQ+ friendly vendors in New Zealand who will make your day unforgettable:
🎤 Celebrants: Find one here
💄 Makeup & Hair: Loft Beauty Boutique
📍 Venues: Queenstown Wedding Venues
📸 Photographers: Oh, speaking of…
📷 Capture Your Love Story with Stunning Photos!
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📩 Let’s chat about your dream wedding!
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Love is love, and your love story deserves to be captured in the most magical way. Let’s make it happen! 💕
