“Let’s just run away to New Zealand and get married on a mountaintop,” they said over their third glass of wine. And spoiler alert—they actually did. If that idea sparks something in you too, then you’re in for a treat. Because New Zealand isn’t just a destination—it’s the destination for LGBTQ+ couples craving beauty, freedom, and just a little bit of magic.
Why New Zealand Is a Dream for LGBTQ+ Weddings
Let’s start with the obvious: New Zealand legalized same-sex marriage in 2013. That means it’s not only legal but celebrated. There’s no side-eye from vendors or awkward pauses when you say “bride and bride” or “groom and groom.” It’s just love—pure, simple, and stunningly set against cinematic landscapes.
From the snow-capped peaks of Queenstown to the wine-kissed hills of Waiheke Island, New Zealand offers locations as diverse as your playlist—and just as fabulous.
Where to Tie the Knot: Unforgettable LGBTQ+ Wedding Locations in NZ
🌿 Queenstown & Wanaka – For Mountain-Loving Romantics
Queenstown is the kind of place that makes you whisper “Wow” under your breath. Add a helicopter, and now you’re getting married on a remote alpine ridge with just the wind and your witnesses. Want vineyards and lake views? Rippon Vineyard in Wanaka is a jaw-dropping favorite.
📸 Bonus: The light here is a photographer’s dream.
🍇 Waiheke Island – Seaside Sophistication Just Minutes from Auckland
Picture this: You arrive by ferry, greeted by the scent of sea breeze and wine barrels. Mudbrick Vineyard is a jewel box of a venue with views for days. Perfect for couples who want rustic luxe with a hint of boho.
🌋 Rotorua – A Ceremony That Sizzles (Literally)
Rotorua’s geothermal landscapes offer steamy drama in the best way. Bubbling mud pools and hissing geysers at Te Puia make for an unforgettable (and very photogenic) backdrop.
🌺 Hidden Gems & Offbeat Spots
Not into the “big wedding” thing? Consider a waterfall elopement, a ceremony in the fern-filled bush, or even a black sand beach moment at Piha. A little wild, a lot romantic.
When to Go: Seasons of Love
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Summer (Dec–Feb): Long sunny days and perfect for beachy vows.
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Autumn (Mar–May): Golden hues and crisp air = peak romance.
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Winter (Jun–Aug): Think cozy lodges and snowy peaks. 🔥
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Spring (Sep–Nov): Flowers. Everywhere. Like a walking perfume commercial.
Legal Stuff (Because Love Needs Paperwork Too)
Getting married in NZ is refreshingly straightforward. Fill out a Notice of Intended Marriage, deliver it to a Registrar, and boom—you’re official. You’ll need to do this at least three days before the wedding. More details on the New Zealand Government site.
LGBTQ+ Friendly Vendors Who Get It
New Zealand’s wedding scene is incredibly inclusive. You’re not just “accepted”—you’re celebrated. Look into Your Big Day, a wedding team that offers celebrants with Rainbow Awareness training (yes, that’s a thing, and yes, it’s awesome).
From florists who’ll sneak in your favorite wildflowers to caterers serving up vegan pavlova, your wedding can be as you as you want it to be.
Let’s Talk Food & Wine (Because Of Course)
Farm-to-table is a lifestyle here, not just a trend. Imagine fresh oysters, local lamb, and Marlborough Sauvignon Blanc, all served under fairy lights in a vineyard. Hungry yet?
Turn It Into a Honeymoon Adventure
Bungee jump in Queenstown. Hike a glacier. Sip wine in Martinborough. Or just do nothing at a geothermal spa in Hanmer Springs. Your wedding can turn into a once-in-a-lifetime holiday—just the two of you… or with the whole crew.
A Personal Note from Me—Serg 🖤
As a destination wedding photographer, I’ve witnessed firsthand the magic of New Zealand weddings for LGBTQ+ couples. There’s something transformative about seeing love celebrated so freely and beautifully in a place where nature takes your breath away. Capturing those moments—that laughter, that kiss, that look—is not just my job. It’s my passion.
If you’re ready to start planning your adventure, I’d be honored to help you bring it to life.
📸 Dive into the stories I’ve captured on my blog.
💍 Curious about packages? Check them out here.
📩 Let’s make magic together—reach out and let’s start dreaming.
Final Tips & Must-Know FAQs
Is gay marriage legal in New Zealand?
Yes. Fully legal and joyfully embraced since 2013.
Can non-residents get married there?
Absolutely. Just file the paperwork at least 3 days before.
Best months for weddings?
December to March = peak beauty and sunshine.
Affordable or luxe—can I choose?
Yes. From beach elopements to luxury lodges, you call the shots.
Can I include Māori culture?
Yes. Many celebrants can incorporate local traditions with respect and authenticity.
