If you’re dreaming of an Icelandic wedding—where glaciers meet volcanoes, and ancient Viking traditions still whisper in the wind—then get ready for a wedding experience like no other. Iceland is a land where elves might attend your ceremony, black wedding dresses are totally normal, and even the weather has its own set of traditions.
So, whether you’re planning a breathtaking elopement under the Northern Lights or a grand ceremony by a waterfall, let’s explore the most unique Icelandic wedding traditions and superstitions that will make your big day unforgettable.
1. A Bride in Black? Yes, Please!
Forget the classic white dress—traditional Icelandic brides often wore black. It was elegant, timeless, and practical in a land where white gowns wouldn’t last long in the rugged landscape. Today, while most brides wear white, a black wedding dress remains a stunning and unique choice, perfect for a dramatic Icelandic backdrop.
Superstition Alert: Wearing red to a wedding? Maybe think twice—red is sometimes associated with bad luck and mischief in Icelandic folklore.
2. Hidden People Might Be on Your Guest List
Icelanders take their folklore seriously, and many believe in the Huldufólk (hidden people or elves). Some even consult seers to ensure they don’t disrupt elf habitats while planning their wedding. It’s not a joke—road construction has been rerouted in Iceland to avoid disturbing these mystical beings!
If you’re looking for a magical wedding location, consider:
- Vík – Famous for its black sand beaches and dramatic rock formations.
- Seljalandsfoss – A waterfall where you can walk behind the cascade for an epic wedding photo.
- Þingvellir National Park – A historic and breathtaking location where two tectonic plates meet.
Superstition Alert: Never build your wedding altar near a known elf hill—you wouldn’t want to upset your unseen guests!
3. A Viking Toast with a Kick
In Viking times, the wedding wasn’t official until the couple shared a ceremonial drink called the Bragarfull—usually mead or ale. Today, Icelanders carry on the tradition with a shot of Brennivín (a strong local schnapps nicknamed “Black Death”).
Want a fun wedding tradition? Toast your love like true Vikings—with drinking horns and a hearty “Skál!”
4. Grooms Had to Prove Their Strength (and Maybe You Should Too!)
In the old days, Icelandic grooms had to prove their worth by lifting a massive stone or showcasing their strength in front of wedding guests. While this is no longer required, you can bring back the tradition with a fun “Viking Strength Challenge”—maybe an arm-wrestling match or a tug-of-war with the wedding party!
5. The Weather Gods Have the Final Say
Icelandic weather is unpredictable, and many couples still follow an old tradition—placing an offering of food outside to appease the land spirits and ensure good weather. If you really want to be safe, ask an Icelandic farmer—they’re known for having an uncanny ability to predict the weather.
Superstition Alert: If it rains on your wedding day, consider it a blessing—it means your marriage will be filled with prosperity and good fortune.
6. Walking to the Ceremony Together
In many cultures, the bride is “given away” by her father, but in Iceland, couples traditionally walked to the church together. This symbolized equality and mutual commitment—a beautiful tradition you might want to include in your modern wedding.
For a truly Icelandic touch, consider hiring a local folk band to play traditional love songs as you walk to your ceremony.
7. Forget the Classic Wedding Cake—Try This Instead!
Instead of a tiered cake, many Icelandic couples serve kransakaka—a stunning almond cake made of stacked rings, often filled with chocolate or marzipan. It’s delicious, symbolic of unity, and way easier to share.
Another treat you might see? Kleina—a twisted, fried dough pastry that guests often take home. Just watch out—legend has it that whoever eats the last piece will be the next to marry!
8. First Dance… in the Snow?
Imagine this: You and your partner, wrapped in warm cloaks, twirling in the snow under the glow of the Northern Lights. Some adventurous couples even have their first dance outside—embracing Iceland’s wild beauty in the most romantic way possible.
For summer weddings, the midnight sun offers another incredible backdrop. Some couples say their vows at 11 PM and then party through the night in endless daylight.
Superstition Alert: They say getting married under the midnight sun ensures that your love will never fade, just like Iceland’s summer sky.
9. A Viking Send-Off: Leave in Style
How do you make a wedding exit as epic as an Icelandic love story?
- Ride off on Icelandic horses.
- Drive away in a vintage Land Rover for a rugged touch.
- If you’re near a fjord, sail away in a traditional boat—a true Viking-style departure.
Bonus Idea: Light a ceremonial bonfire to symbolize the burning away of your single life, welcoming your new journey together. Just… maybe keep the bouquet away from the flames!
FAQ: Everything You Need to Know About Icelandic Weddings
1. Can foreigners legally get married in Iceland?
Yes! Iceland makes it relatively easy for couples to legally marry, but you’ll need to submit paperwork in advance. Visit Iceland.is for official marriage requirements.
2. What’s the best season to get married in Iceland?
It depends!
- Summer (June–August): Long days, mild temperatures, and access to remote locations.
- Winter (November–March): A chance to say “I do” under the Northern Lights.
3. Where are the best places to elope in Iceland?
Some top spots include Skógafoss waterfall, Diamond Beach, and Jökulsárlón Glacier Lagoon. Each offers a truly magical setting for a small, intimate ceremony.
Ready to Capture Your Own Icelandic Love Story?
An Icelandic wedding is more than just a ceremony—it’s an adventure, a legend in the making. Whether you’re exchanging vows beneath a waterfall, celebrating under the midnight sun, or sharing a toast like a true Viking, your love story deserves to be captured in all its wild beauty.
And that’s where I come in.
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