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Costa Rican Wedding Etiquette and Traditions: A Guide for Couples Planning Their Dream Destination Wedding

So you’re dreaming of a destination wedding that’s a little bit wild, a little bit spiritual, and totally unforgettable? Say no more—Costa Rica might just be your wedding soulmate. With volcanoes in the distance, beaches that blush at sunset, and a culture that embraces love like no other, this place is a wedding photographer’s fantasy—and a couple’s paradise.

But before you grab your passport and your best white linen outfit, let’s dive into the beautiful, heartfelt, and sometimes delightfully quirky wedding traditions and etiquette that make Costa Rican weddings so special.

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First Things First: La Pedida – More Than Just “The Talk”

In Costa Rica, love begins at home—with the families, to be exact. La Pedida de Mano is a tradition where the groom’s family formally visits the bride’s family to ask for her hand in marriage. This isn’t just a sweet formality—it’s a loving blend of cultures, coffee, heartfelt speeches, and maybe even some homemade tamales.

💡 Tip for destination couples: Even if you’re not local, you can host a virtual version of this with your families before the big trip—bring the Costa Rican spirit to your screen with florals, music, and a mini toast.

Serenata: Singing Love Under the Stars

Romance isn’t dead in Costa Rica—it’s alive, strumming a guitar beneath your window. The serenata is a soulful serenade the night before the wedding, where the groom (or hired musicians) performs love songs for the bride. It’s emotional. It’s melodic. It’s got Notebook energy.

🎶 Can’t sing? Don’t worry. Hiring a local mariachi or marimba band adds authenticity—and spares your guests your karaoke rendition of Ed Sheeran.

The Ceremony: Where Traditions Bloom

The Lazo – A Hug You Can Wear

One of the most beautiful wedding rituals is the lazo ceremony. Picture this: after you say your vows, a loop of rosary beads or flowers is gently draped over both of you in the shape of an infinity symbol. It’s a literal tie that binds.

🌿 Whether Catholic or not, the symbolism is powerful—and adds a beautiful photo moment that feels as intimate as it looks.

Las Arras – The 13 Coins of Promise

The groom presents 13 gold or silver coins to the bride as a promise to support her and their future together. The bride accepts as a symbol of trust and shared responsibility. Simple, rich in meaning, and… shiny.

💰 Bonus: you can personalize your coins with engravings or even tokens that reflect your relationship.

The Party: Rice, Rhythms & Revelry

Feast Like a Tico

Expect generous portions of casado, gallo pinto, fresh ceviche, plantains, and oh yes—local rum cake. Meals in Costa Rica reflect the heart of the culture: warm, inviting, and prepared with love.

🌮 Destination foodie tip: Consider hiring a local chef for a fusion of Costa Rican and your home flavors—it’s a culinary way to blend your two worlds.

Dancing ‘Til Dawn

Costa Rican wedding receptions don’t end until the last abuela taps out. Live music, salsa, cumbia, marimba—your hips will be sore the next day. And don’t forget the cimarrona band (a brass band) that kicks things off with energy only matched by espresso.

💃 Want a truly immersive experience? Book a local dance troupe or surprise guests with a traditional masquerade show (cue the giant colorful masks).

Sustainability Meets Spirituality

Costa Rica is one of the world’s greenest countries, and many couples incorporate eco-conscious practices into their wedding day—think compostable décor, reusable florals, and locally sourced food.

🌎 Many venues now offer zero-waste packages or rainforest replanting ceremonies. Your love grows—and so do the trees.

Stunning Wedding Venues Worthy of Your Story

If you’re choosing Costa Rica, you’ve got options—jungle chic, beach boho, or colonial elegance. Here are a few jaw-dropping spots:

Villa Punto de Vista – Overlooking the Pacific in Manuel Antonio. Luxe, exclusive, and photo-perfect.
Andaz Costa Rica Resort – Papagayo Peninsula magic with eco-luxury and all the bells.
Hacienda Pinilla – Colonial meets coastal in Guanacaste. Think private chapels, horse trails, and golden hour glory.
Villa Caletas – Perched on a cliff near Jacó, with views made for vows and volcanoes.
Casa Chameleon – Adults-only. Private villas. Ocean views. Romance level: 100/10.

Legal Love: What You Need to Marry in Costa Rica

Good news: getting legally married in Costa Rica is easier than pronouncing guanacaste. You’ll need:

Valid passports
Birth certificates
Affidavits of single status
Witnesses (can be provided locally)

📜 Pro tip: Many planners offer legal packages or symbolic ceremonies paired with a civil ceremony back home.

Your Story Deserves to Be Told Beautifully

Costa Rican weddings are magical—but fleeting. That’s why capturing every sunbeam, tear, and giggle is essential. I’m Serg, the destination wedding photographer behind Your Happy Moments. My lens doesn’t just take photos—it tells your love story through golden light, spontaneous smiles, and nature’s wild beauty.

Explore my photography packages to find the perfect fit for your Costa Rican celebration, whether it’s a beachfront elopement or a jungle fiesta. Ready to make it official? Let’s chat—contact me here and let’s make your love story legendary.

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