Spoiler: Nope, no secret handshake required. But you do need a few real-life documents—and a whole lotta love.
Whether you’re envisioning an elopement on the cliffs of Wanaka, a vibrant vineyard celebration in Queenstown, or an urban “I do” in the heart of Auckland, New Zealand greets all couples with open arms. Love is love here—and it’s legally recognized, celebrated, and photogenically stunning.
So, let’s break down what you really need to tie the knot in Aotearoa. With checklists, humor, and a dash of wanderlust, of course.
💍 Can LGBTQ+ Couples Get Married in New Zealand?
Absolutely—and proudly so.
New Zealand legalized same-sex marriage in 2013, becoming the first country in the Asia-Pacific region to do so. Since then, it has become one of the world’s top LGBTQ+ destination wedding spots.
There are no separate rules or paperwork for LGBTQ+ couples. The legal process is the same for all lovebirds, whether you’re Mr. & Mr., Mrs. & Mrs., or Mx. & Mx.
📋 Legal Checklist: Documents You’ll Need
Before you start Pinterest-boarding your wedding cape (yes, capes are in), here’s your quick doc-check:
✅ 1. Notice of Intended Marriage (Form BDM 60)
This is the magic form that starts it all. It needs to be completed at least 3 working days before your wedding.
👉 Download the form and full instructions here
✅ 2. Proof of Identity
Both partners need:
✅ 3. If Previously Married or in a Civil Union
You’ll also need:
📝 Hot Tip: Plan ahead! Some documents might need to be translated or apostilled depending on your home country’s laws.
🌈 Is New Zealand LGBTQ+ Friendly?
Oh yes. Beyond legality, New Zealand embraces diversity with open hearts. From inclusive celebrants to LGBTQ-owned venues, the wedding industry here is warm, respectful, and excited to be part of your love story.
Still, we recommend mentioning that you’re an LGBTQ+ couple during vendor conversations, just to ensure you’re supported every step of the way.
🛬 Can International LGBTQ+ Couples Get Married in NZ?
Yes, yes, and yes. You don’t need to be a citizen or resident.
You just need:
Your marriage will be recognized internationally—though it’s always smart to double-check your home country’s policies.
💡 Best Wedding Locations in New Zealand for LGBTQ+ Couples
Whether you want epic mountains, seaside serenity, or city vibes, NZ has the venue of your dreams:
🌿 Queenstown & Wanaka
Dramatic peaks, crystal lakes, and that cool-luxury vibe. Check out:
🌆 Auckland
Urban elegance meets coastal calm. Think rooftop vows and fine dining receptions.
🌋 Tongariro National Park
Volcanoes and drama? Yes please. Perfect for wild-at-heart elopements.
🙌 Eloping in NZ? Even Easier.
Here’s what you need:
Whether it’s barefoot on a black sand beach or in a heli on a mountaintop, NZ elopements are as flexible as they are breathtaking.
🎤 Choosing Your Celebrant
NZ celebrants are a creative bunch. Many are LGBTQ+ themselves and fully inclusive.
Find someone who gets your vibe, and don’t be afraid to ask:
🔗 Find a celebrant via the Celebrants Association of NZ
📆 Bonus: When’s the Best Time to Get Married in New Zealand?
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Spring (Sept–Nov): Blossoms and waterfalls
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Summer (Dec–Feb): Sunshine, vineyards, beach weddings
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Autumn (Mar–May): Golden light, quieter crowds
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Winter (Jun–Aug): Snowy wonderlands and cozy lodge vibes
💬 Real Talk: Things Couples Often Forget
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Witnesses: You need 2, over 18. They don’t need to know you personally.
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Weather backup: NZ weather can be… spontaneous.
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Apostille: Check if your home country requires it for official recognition.
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Extra time for postal delays (if applying from abroad)
📣 FAQ – Because Google Loves FAQs (and so do planners)
Q: Can we get married the day we arrive in New Zealand?
A: Only if you submitted your Notice of Intended Marriage at least 3 working days earlier and everything is approved.
Q: Can we include Māori traditions in our ceremony?
A: Absolutely. Many celebrants love incorporating te reo Māori blessings or rituals. It adds deep cultural meaning to your day.
Q: Can we get married on a hiking trail or mountaintop?
A: Yes—just get a permit if it’s on DOC land. Your celebrant can help with this.
🖼️ Want Photos As Epic As Your Love Story?
Hey, I’m Serg—destination wedding photographer and founder of Your Happy Moments. I specialize in capturing unposed, honest, joy-filled moments for couples who live and love boldly.
Whether you’re eloping under waterfalls or dancing on a mountaintop, I’ll be there to tell your story through rich, emotional imagery.
Ready to explore how we can work together?
📸 See photography packages
💬 Reach out with questions
🌍 Get inspired by real love stories
Your love deserves to be celebrated—and remembered with beautiful, soulful photos.
Love doesn’t follow rules, but getting married does (just a few!). Thankfully, in New Zealand, the rules are simple, inclusive, and written with love.
So… when are you packing your bags?
